I haven’t hugged my mom in almost 6 years.
She still gives me plenty of hugs, which I thoroughly enjoy and relish. But it’s not the same. And sometimes a bit of effort is needed to hoodwink myself into believing it’s not so one-sided.
If I could hug her it would probably be a long time before I’d let go.
My mother has been at my side since the day of my injury. Of course, she was at my side prior to my accident, but in a different way. We had a different type of relationship.
I often joke with people that a son and his mom are not supposed to spend as much time together as we do. Inevitably, the more time you spend with someone, the more time you have to get on each other’s nerves. Of course, when someone can take you at your worst, and still see the best in you, it’s a relationship more valuable than anything on earth.
That’s my mom.
I remember the first time I saw the movie, “The Passion of the Christ.” There were a lot of powerful images throughout the film, but there is one that sticks with me above all else. It’s when Jesus is constructing a table and his mother, Mary, innocently teases him. He playfully gets her back by splashing her with some water from a jug.
That’s the scene I always come back to when I think about the model of love between a son and mother. I’m very aware of how much God loves me, and the sacrifice He made for me. However, it’s the aforementioned image I hold in my mind as a constant reminder of how much my mother loves me and how much I want to love her.
Every night I thank God for the people still in my life, and my parents and sister are at the top of the list.
These days when I think about how much time a son is forced to spend with his mom, I smile, and thank God for the amazing gift He’s given me.
Unfortunately, not everyone still has the ability to ask for a hug from their mother. But I’m pretty sure that most everyone wishes they could.
So until that day arrives when I can hug my mom back, I will continue to be grateful for the hugs she gives me (even if they elicit a spasm).
To everyone who still has the ability to hug their mother – Do it. And if there are obstacles in the way that might prevent you from doing so – tell her how much you wish you could.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of the mothers!
Stand Strong!
Scott
(PS – I love you mom! Thank you!)
God bless you and Bobbi!
A great post and a wonderful tribute to your mom and all moms. And as it sometimes happens, reading your post… a tear down my cheek. Thanks for your words and thoughts.
Maybe your best post ever Scott. Please tell your Mom Happy Mother’s Day from all the Matthews. God Speed and God Bless!
Oh my what lovely words and a gorgeous picture of the two of you.
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Thanks for reminding us on this Mothers Day to hug her and others. It definitely is an act of love which we can give freely but tend forget how good hugs feel hence don’t give nearly enough.
Do you know there are professional huggers!
Happy Huggable Mothers Day!
What a beautiful tribute to your loving, giving, caring, and hugging mom.
Your post brought tears to my eyes, Scott, in a wonderful way.
The simple things in life are the ones we often forget to cherish.
Sending you an auntie-hug !!
And sending a big hug to your mom!!!!
BEAUTIFUL! A MOM IS SPECIAL! I HOPE MY CHILDREN KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE THEM…AND I AM VERY HAPPY TO KNOW THEY LOVE ME. I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN WITH THEM MORE….I HAD TO WORK LONG HOURS WHEN MY HUSBAND WAS ILL AND COULD NOT WORK AND AFTER HE DIED IT WAS EVEN MORE DEMANDING. BUT I COULD DO IT FOR THEM…THAT GAVE ME THE PUSH. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVELY WORDS FOR YOUR MOM. MY OWN MOM WAS ALWAYS HOME AND AVAILABLE TO US, 8 OF US! SHE HAD A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR AND THAT KEPT HER SANE, I THINK. WE DIDN’T HAVE A VERY HUGGY HOUSEHOLD, BUT WE KNEW WE WERE LOVED. I REMEMBER WALKING HOME FROM CHURCH IN A BLIZZARD WITH HER AND SHE SHARED ONE GLOVE WITH ME AND OUR OTHER HANDS KEPT WARM CLASPING EACH OTHER. I DOUBT THAT I’D HAVE EVEN THOUGHT OF THAT! BUT THAT’S A MOM.
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY! CAROL
A beautiful and inspiring tribute to your Mother.
So sweet! There is nothing like a mother’s hug.
Love this! I wish I could…
Dear Scott, how beautifully said. God Bless you and your very special Mom. Love to you both Cherry
Unconditional love. If their love alone could heal us….Happy Mother’s Day to your special Mom
Happy Mother’s Day Bobbi,
And thank you for sharing Scott with us all.
He truly is making a difference in so many lives.
We have also been blessed . . . Lv, Mike
Another beautiful post. Thanks for sharing this, Scott! We love and miss you and hope to see you this spring/summer 🙂
Love,
Kevin & Steph
A wise farmer in my hometown in Ohio once said to me “No one loves ya like your Momma!” and that is soooo true! Sending warm wishes and warm weather from Florida!
I am looking forward to all those hugs; I know they will be coming someday soon. I love you very much and thank you for your beautiful comments
Scott
Not a post that I read that doesn’t bring a tear and a smile at the same time. Stay strong and keep the faith…thanks for all you do for me and for all of us.
God Bless
Mike